This decision can hinge on several things:
1. How a person feels about public speaking.
2. Whether each of you wants to participate.
3. If you are good writers.
4. Whether your officiant or clergy will assist or encourage this.
5. Lead time before the ceremony.
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There are many websites, books, video and special areas of great interest you may want to investigate as you begin to write and make valid points for a brief, but meaningful message
to your bride or groom. I have listed a few links for you.
Anne Wycoff's White Paper on LOVE IS A VERB
Love Poems and Quotes.com
The Poetry Foundation
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